Building resilience
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Books that help little people through big moments
Meet the experts
My Big Moments works with a team of experts in child development, psychology, play therapy and neuroscience.
Practical language, ideas and strategies in the books will help you handle your own real-life challenges.
Nathan Wallis
Neuroscience Educator
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Nathan Wallis is a neuroscience educator, child-development expert and parenting commentator. Known for being a lively and engaging speaker, his events sell-out and he’s a trusted voice on New Zealand TV and radio. Nathan is known for delivering insights using plain language and a good dose of humour. He’s also a dad, foster parent and grandad.
“These books are beautifully done and serve a meaningful purpose. They fulfil the need for high quality, entertaining child-centred books about real-life topics and difficulties children deal with every day.”
Nathan Wallis
Abby Linn
Registered Play Specialist and Director of Creative Coping
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Abby Linn is a Registered Play Specialist and Director of Creative Coping Limited, with qualifications in Psychology, Child and Adolescent Mental Health. She has worked with children for over 20 years and is a mum to three of her own.
“These books are simply amazing! Not only are the stories captivating and the language playful and positive, but there are coping strategies subtly woven throughout the books to help guide children and parents who are facing real-life challenges.”
Abby Linn
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"My Big Moments blows all stereotypes of personalised books out of the water. They are beautifully designed, written with sensitivity and sophistication, explore big topics in an age-appropriate way and are engaging, entertaining and thought-provoking.”
Megan Daley
Children’s Books Daily
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Nathan Wallis
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“It isn't wishy-washy advice, nor brutal and blunt, but is perfectly pitched for the audience — young children.”
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“Innovative, clever and unique, these personalised picture books with their engaging, well-crafted stories and vibrant, funky illustrations are the perfect way to prepare our children for those big moments in their young lives.”
Sue Whiting
Children’s and young adult author and editor
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“Gorgeous illustrations. Love your work! I’ll be ordering the ‘starting school’ one for my little girl.”
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Children's book publisher, editor and mum of two